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July 31

   There may be times in our relationship where I wonder whether my partner is having an affair, or has recently had one. I can't quite put my finger on it, but somehow something seems different.
   The longer I think about it, the more I'm likely to tell myself "oh, you're just imagining things". Yet that nagging feeling just won't quit.
   The more adept someone is at hiding secrets, the harder it is to get behind their inner curtain to find out the truth. If I keep experiencing such nagging feelings, it may be time to simply ask myself "why?".
   My intuition may be trying to signal me that my partner is being dishonest, or it may be trying to tell me something else. The only way I'll find out is to bring an open mind to it, listen to it best I can, and seek out other's ears so that I can talk about my puzzlement.
   When I do this, usually the answers have their own way of coming out. I find out that my logic and reasoning have their limits, and that I need every source of insight to handle some situations - my brain, my heart , and my soul.

Just for Today
   Today, if my intuition is trying to get my attention about something in our relationship, I'll begin taking the time to listen. By keeping an open mind, and employing patience and talking with others, I'll give myself the best chance to find out what it is trying to tell me.

Trust your hunches. They're usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level. - Dr. Joyce Brothers

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