If Ive been reading books or magazine articles on relationships, chances are Ive discovered that theres conflicting advice on how to deal with different parts of a relationship.
One source, for example, may recommend keeping some things secret, while another stresses being open and honest about everything. Another may focus on ways to keep your partner faithful, while yet another points out that such attempts may backfire.
Its hard at times to know whos right, and whos wrong. And it seems that the more I read, the more confusing some things get.
When I think about it though, no one has a perfect understanding of how relationships work. If someone did, everyone would be beating a path to their door. every writer bases their beliefs on what theyve learned and experienced for themselves. The only way Ill ever be able to find out how well their beliefs work for me is to try those that show some promise. Like shoes, I may have to try on many different types before I find those that fit comfortably.
Just for Today
Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it. - Andre Gide
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