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- I could really use
some advice - Nocturnal
...wonders how to win back his girlfriend's love,
after a "temporary" separation turns
out to be a possibly permanent one.
- I Think I want her
back - William
..has a magical first year in his first serious
relationship, only to have things crumble in the
second year, after he discovers he has ADD and
his girlfriend dumps him for a gynecologist.
- Finding it hard to
leave - Ms secret
..wants to break up with her boyfriend of 3
years, but is scared to.
- Unsure of my
relationship - Mel
..is confused about whether to permanently end a
14 year marriage, or hang on while continuing in
- Letting go -
..isn't sure whether sending a Mother's Day card
to his recently estranged wife will be taken the
- Cold and unemotional
..finds himself feeling more and more down as
well as financially strapped, as his ex-wife
becomes more emotionally cold with him and his
child support payments increase to $520 a month.
- Boyfriend Says It's
All Over - Trick
..is hurt and confused, after her boyfriend calls
it quits for the second time.
- Broken Heart -
..finds herself more devastated by the breakup of
a 1 1/2 year relationship, than she did over her
earlier divorce from a 12 year marriage.
- Heart recently broken
..is sad & confused & depressed, after
being dumped by a man she loves "more than
- Separation -
..wants to know the stages a person goes through
after a marriage separation.
- I still love my
husband - lost
..wants to give the marriage another try, but her
husband wants to "just be friends"
because he's scared of being hurt again.
- She says I'm holding
her back - Barry
..is mystified when his estranged wife tells him
he's "holding her back" from getting on
with her life.
- Burned twice -
..feels betrayed as her boyfriend keeps
ping-ponging between her and his ex.
- Children and divorce
..finds it hard to get a balance between taking
care of herself, and her children's pain in the
aftermath of a divorce.
- Four year
relationship gone? - DWN
...struggles with an on-again, off-again
relationship - especially after his SO has a
relationship with a much younger man.
- What now? - Confused
...finds herself getting VERY mixed signals from
her boyfriend of 7 years, after numerous breakups
in which he had other relationships.
- Lost in guilt and
control - Barry
..feels he's in a "lose-lose
situation", as anger from his estranged wife
- and his own pain over their breakup - increase.
- Kids and divorce -
..wants advice on helping kids though divorce,
after leaving a 20 year relationship.
- If Only Earlier -
..wishes she would have had the insights she
needed to rebuild her relationship, instead of
leaving her son's father.
- What have I done?
- Randy G.
..discovers his girlfriend has changed her mind
about starting over, after they both agreed to
spend some time apart.
- Me again -
...finds the pain of a recent breakup crushing
in, and wonders "Why do all the men in my
life leave me?"
- I could use a hug
..discovers her son is using drugs, while her
divorce proceedings against her estranged husband
become even more difficult.
- Dealing with guilt
...feels miserably guilty, after her ex threatens
suicide because she finally ended their
Transition - Jark
..still finds himself sobbing 5 years after the
breakup of a very difficult and draining
- I set myself up for
the fall - Dean
...gets a setback trying to mend a broken
relationship, when he finds his ex has still been
seeing a former lover.
- Now what?-
...wonders if he should make a first move in
trying to repair an awkward relationship with his
- We talked today -
..sees some positive changes in his relationship
with his ex.
- Still dealing with
things - Della
...is struggling with painful doubt over whether
she should have tried harder in her former
- Will she stay or
leave? - Cloakie
...wonders what his wife will do, after she tells
him she's been unhappy during all of their 6 year
- Another Long Day
..is left suddenly without explanation by a woman
he had hoped to spend his life with.
- Trouble with my
girlfriend - Lonelyguy
..finds an incident at a wedding is the final
straw for his girlfriend of several years, who
tells him she's "tired of your crap".
- What should I do now?
..doesn't know how to handle the breakup of a 3
year relationship with his first true love.
- Trust, Fights, and
the Quiet Game - Joe
..finds that past lies are contributing to
current fights with his girlfriend, and a likely