• I could really use some advice - Nocturnal
  ...wonders how to win back his girlfriend's love, after a "temporary" separation turns out to be a possibly permanent one.
• I Think I want her back - William
  ..has a magical first year in his first serious relationship, only to have things crumble in the second year, after he discovers he has ADD and his girlfriend dumps him for a gynecologist.
• Finding it hard to leave - Ms secret
  ..wants to break up with her boyfriend of 3 years, but is scared to.
• Unsure of my relationship - Mel
  ..is confused about whether to permanently end a 14 year marriage, or hang on while continuing in joint counseling.
• Letting go - Barry
  ..isn't sure whether sending a Mother's Day card to his recently estranged wife will be taken the wrong way.
• Cold and unemotional - Barry
  ..finds himself feeling more and more down as well as financially strapped, as his ex-wife becomes more emotionally cold with him and his child support payments increase to $520 a month.
• Boyfriend Says It's All Over - Trick
  ..is hurt and confused, after her boyfriend calls it quits for the second time.
• Broken Heart - WineGirl
  ..finds herself more devastated by the breakup of a 1 1/2 year relationship, than she did over her earlier divorce from a 12 year marriage.
• Heart recently broken - taz
  ..is sad & confused & depressed, after being dumped by a man she loves "more than life itself".
• Separation - Karl
  ..wants to know the stages a person goes through after a marriage separation.
• I still love my husband - lost
  ..wants to give the marriage another try, but her husband wants to "just be friends" because he's scared of being hurt again.
• She says I'm holding her back - Barry
  ..is mystified when his estranged wife tells him he's "holding her back" from getting on with her life.
• Burned twice - candy
  ..feels betrayed as her boyfriend keeps ping-ponging between her and his ex.
• Children and divorce - Cautious
  ..finds it hard to get a balance between taking care of herself, and her children's pain in the aftermath of a divorce.
• Four year relationship gone? - DWN
  ...struggles with an on-again, off-again relationship - especially after his SO has a relationship with a much younger man.
• What now? - Confused
  ...finds herself getting VERY mixed signals from her boyfriend of 7 years, after numerous breakups in which he had other relationships.
• Lost in guilt and control - Barry
  ..feels he's in a "lose-lose situation", as anger from his estranged wife - and his own pain over their breakup - increase.
• Kids and divorce - married twice
  ..wants advice on helping kids though divorce, after leaving a 20 year relationship.
• If Only Earlier - Lady "G"
  ..wishes she would have had the insights she needed to rebuild her relationship, instead of leaving her son's father.
• What have I done? - Randy G.
  ..discovers his girlfriend has changed her mind about starting over, after they both agreed to spend some time apart.
• Me again - Kim
  ...finds the pain of a recent breakup crushing in, and wonders "Why do all the men in my life leave me?"
• I could use a hug - Claudia
  ..discovers her son is using drugs, while her divorce proceedings against her estranged husband become even more difficult.

Newest Entries

• Dealing with guilt - della
  ...feels miserably guilty, after her ex threatens suicide because she finally ended their relationship
• Post-Divorce Transition - Jark
  ..still finds himself sobbing 5 years after the breakup of a very difficult and draining marriage.
• I set myself up for the fall - Dean
  ...gets a setback trying to mend a broken relationship, when he finds his ex has still been seeing a former lover.
• Now what?- Dean
  ...wonders if he should make a first move in trying to repair an awkward relationship with his ex-girlfriend.
• We talked today - Dean
  ..sees some positive changes in his relationship with his ex.
• Still dealing with things - Della
  ...is struggling with painful doubt over whether she should have tried harder in her former relationship.
• Will she stay or leave? - Cloakie
  ...wonders what his wife will do, after she tells him she's been unhappy during all of their 6 year marriage.
• Another Long Day - Lenny
  ..is left suddenly without explanation by a woman he had hoped to spend his life with.
• Trouble with my girlfriend - Lonelyguy
  ..finds an incident at a wedding is the final straw for his girlfriend of several years, who tells him she's "tired of your crap".
• What should I do now? - Unsure
  ..doesn't know how to handle the breakup of a 3 year relationship with his first true love.
• Trust, Fights, and the Quiet Game - Joe
  ..finds that past lies are contributing to current fights with his girlfriend, and a likely breakup.