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 One girl, two guys - Darksoul
I met this girl on a cruise I went on for a week. She
just happened to go to my camp.We fell in love. We did
all the things that couples did except sex. The problem
was she had a boyfriend that she just had a fight with.
They were very awkward around each other.Well when we had
to say goodbye we knew that wasn't going to end the love.
We live 3 hrs away from each other and never see each
other and her boyfriend is in her town. We talk on the
phone everyday now.She is still with him but she is
questioning their relationship. What should I do to make
her mine forever or shall I just give up on the dream of
having her in my arms again????
 From: Josie
Dear Darksoul, I think that you should just come out
with it and tell her how you feel. She obviously thinks a
lot of you or other wise she wouldn't have spent all that
time with you and talk to you on the phone every day. If
she tells you that she just wants to be friends and
nothing else, at least you will be put out of your misery
and you can still carry on being friends as you are now.
My guess from a girl's point of view is that she must
like you quite a bit, since she got pretty close to you
when you were both away but she is confused because of
her boyfriend. It doesn't sound like they have a very
good relationship. Does it? And it is you she is choosing
as your confidant!!. There are more ways of having an
affair than just the physical sort and it sounds to me
like you two are already having an affair of the mind. At
least if you tell her, she might decided that you care
enough and it might be the incentive she needs to leave
her present unsatisfactory relationship, if not, it will
hurt but you can still be good friends. Pluck the courage
to ask to see her again....and see what happens. BEST OF
LUCK!!
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