 When to marry.... A question for
women - corny
I would like for some women to answer this question.
Probably heard this before...I am a 26 yr old male
totally in love with a 21 yr old female. We have been
dating 3 years very steadily. Hardly ever fight, and when
we do, we can't stay mad at each other for more than a
day. From my end, I believe I am with the most attractive
and stunning women who ever walked the earth. She is
funny, witty, independant as well as dependant, bold,
shy, and just plain cute. I've had 3 other relationships
but this is the first time I have been in love. Here's my
problem. We have talked about marriage and I know that I
want to be with her for the rest of my life. But she is
unsure if she is ready to marry and tells me NOT to ask
her anytime soon cause she knows her answer will be no.
She says she loves me and wants to be with me for the
rest of her life, but she is not ready.
Sigh...I have so many fears. Will she stay with me?
Will we be together 10 years from now? How can I make
this thing last? Actually I'm not really ready to marry
either, but I don't think anyone is EVER ready. I realize
that marriage is a leap of faith which no one is ever
fully ready. Perhaps her fears are starting a new life
and changing her environment. This scares me too, but I
have the women of my dreams. The question for you women
is...do you suppose she is really in love with me? Can
this be possible for her fears to overcome her desire for
marriage? Everything is really great right now, we have
our own little schedule and have lots of fun so perhaps
her thinking is why change it? I can understand her
fears, but I'm really ready to do this thing.
I don't know...guess I'm just rambling and soliciting
any female advice. She thinks I'm the perfect guy for
her. She tells me she loves me. SHe has lots of fun with
me and thinks I'm funny too. She says I'm the most
handsome man around. Hehe..wish all women were like
her... Consider this...I am an attractive man with a good
personality who treats his woman like a queen. No kidding
either. I would do anything for her. Is this enough? Or
am I just playing the fool? Any advice anyone?
 From: 21/f
You have to understand that she is still young and
does not want to feel tied down. That piece of paper
saying thast you are married will change her and your
life forever. Marriage is a big step. She loves you but
when she thinks about marriage even for women there is a
suffocating feeling. Do not pressure her, her life has
just begun. Suppose you did get married and everything
changed and you and her wound up resenting each other. If
you should be together than you will what is the
rush??????? There is so much time ahead of you.
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