 Boyfriend Says It's All Over -
Trick
I'm a woman 27 years old. I had relationship with a
man 30 years, calm and introvert. It's started from 1990
and over in 1991 without any reason from him and me
though I had asked him so many times. Then in January
1995 It's started again. I first contacted him. It was
beautiful. But in June 1995 It's over again without any
reason. I have been asking him the reason but he just
said that it has to be over. He always wants to stay away
from me. But I really know that he still loves me from
his friends. And until now he doesn't love any girl
friend yet. He cames from a broken family that he never
tells me. But I really love him very much. What should I
do now. Please kindly give me your advice. Thanks a lot.
 From: no
expert
It sounds to me as though your friend may be afraid of
love. Especially when you mentioned that he is from a
broken family. If he has not grown up with love in his
family then it makes sense that he scared and runs away
when things are going to good. It really is not a
concientious thing on his part. I would hate to suggest
therapy, but maybe just talking with you about it in a
non threatening environment may help. Suggestion: go for
a long drive and just start talking and gradually get
into the above; by being in the car the conversation
should be easier because there is no eye contact involved
which brings down the shyness or weariness as well. Good
luck.
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