|| AFFAIRS, INFIDELITY
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- A matter of trust
...finds another woman's phone number in her
boyfriend's car and wallet.
- What to do? -
...wonders if she should give up trying.
Married 13 years and currently separated, her
husband has been involved in an affair for close
to a year.
- How do I heal a
broken heart? - Remorseful
..has his cybersex affair discovered, and his
wife wants an end to the marriage.
- Something's missing
- Confused III
..finds herself torn between leaving and
staying, a few years after an affair takes the
glow out of the relationship.
- Fight v. flight -
...wonder whether to leave or stay in an 8 year
old relationship, after his girlfriend has an
affair 4 years after his own affair.
- Hurting - Firefly
...receives less than straight answers from her
husband of 8 years, when she questions him about
ongoing long-distance phone calls to an
- Troubled relationship
with a friend of the opposite sex - Confused
...gets conflicting signals from a co-worker he's
had a physical affair with, and is still in love
- The awful pain of
adultery - Sadder than sad
..is devastated over a new boyfriend's affair,
and the betrayal of their shared Christian
- How much to reveal
about an affair - Wondering
...is unsure about how much to tell her boyfriend
about an outside relationship that included phone
sex, but no actual intercourse.
- Trust - Amberle
...finds a suspicious receipt for drinks, after
her boyfriend has admitted an attraction to a
woman at work.
- Trust - Daisy
...battles with fears of her boyfriend cheating,
after a history of both partners making choices
that lessen trust in the relationship.
- How long to try?
...wonders how long to give the effort of
rebuilding the relationship after his
girlfriend's affair, because it seems like she
isn't really trying in their joint counselling
- My husband cheated
- Unsure Wife
...feels bored and unhappy, after taking back her
ex-husband following the breakup of their 13 year
relationship because of his affairs.
- After the Affair
...agonizes over how to repair a 9 1/2 marriage
that includes 4 children, in light of his wife's
on again/off again affair with an outside lover.
- Wife continuing her
affair - Mzet
...discovers his wife's affair is still going on,
and finds himself devastated and wanting to end
- Infidelity - Still
...still feels devastated 5 years after the
breakup of a 15 year relationship with an
alcoholic who left her for a woman 10-15 years
- Can the guilty
partner help the innocent party after infidelity?-
...wonders if and how he can help an
ex-girlfriend who is sinking into deep
depression, after he cheated on her and left for
his current girlfriend.
- Mixed Up - Mixed
...doesn't have her heart in rebuilding a
marriage that she came back to mainly because of
the children, following her affair and a
- Loving two men in two
different ways - alone
...wonders whether she should have tried harder
to make a stormy and difficult 12 year marriage
work after her affair, while having jitters about
committing to her new boyfriend.
- Being Possessive
..feels threatened by the amount of time her
boyfriend of 6 years spends on the phone with his
- I'm hurting too much
to go on - Untrusting
...is devastated after discovering her sister
slept with her husband.
- Do people change?
...asks if his 50 year old girlfriend can change
her spots after she admits to having numerous
affairs in the past.
- How can I trust
again? - Hurting1
...tries to begin rebuilding a 16 year
marriage, after his wife has an affair with a
- Should I date this
married man? - Confused in Seattle
...wants to become more involved with a married
man, but is unsure what she'll have to deal with.
- Distancing by
cheating - Kristine
...is distressed by her boyfriend's
open flirting, and wonders whether it's his way
of dealing with his intimacy struggles.
- After an affair -
...believes his wife has finally stopped
cheating, but is finding it difficult to handle
her lack of feelings toward him.
- Wife staying but
still in love with her lover - tom
..wonders how to get his wife to love him again,
after she has an affair with her boss but decides
to stay in the marriage because of the children.
- Resentment, anger
after an affair - Mzet
...finds overwhelming anger and resentment
pouring out of both him and his wife as they take
the first difficult steps of trying to mend their
- Adultery - tmw
...asks what stages a person goes through after
their partner leaves them for a new lover,
especially when children are involved.
- An effort to come
back - Mzet
..gets a spark of new hope in rebuilding after
his wife's affair, after seeing two significant
changes in their relationship.
- Help!!! - Mzet
..discovers his wife has started a new affair
with a whole new lover, and is at the end of his
rope trying to cope.
- My attorney is going
to fire me! - Mzet
..takes another huge leap of faith after his wife
shows her first serious desire to work on the
marriage, following his decision to start divorce
- Afraid of the answer
.. has anxious thoughts about a planned meeting
between his girlfriend and an online
"friend" of hers.
- Scared To Death -
..finds conflicting feelings of guilt and love
driving her in a ping-pong pattern, leaving her
marriage for a cyberlover, then coming back, then
leaving again, then.
- Dealing with the
affair - Hern
...discovers his wife has been having an affair,
and is pregnant from her lover.
- How to re-start love
..wonders why it is so hard for people to
recapture feelings of love for a partner, after
that love is initially lost.
- Mentally Cheating?
..discovers an unfinished love letter his
girlfriend has been writing to a married man.
- Trying to get over it
..wishes she could get over hurting so much,
after she and her husband try to rebuild their
marriage in the aftermath of his affair.
- Her feelings still
haven't changed - Tom
... finds it hard that his wife hasn't
regained any feelings of love for him, after she
decided to work on their marriage after her
- Trust -
...feels shut out by her much older CEO
boyfriend, and is worried that he still talks to
some former girlfriends.
- Divorce after an
affair (or two) - mzet
...decides to go ahead with a divorce, after
unsuccessful attempts to rebuild the marriage
after his wife's affair.
- Why do I feel so
terrible - Separated
...can't eat or sleep, after throwing her husband
out of the house for having an affair during her
- Affair in Iowa - Tore
up in Iowa
...has a hard time even looking at his wife after
- Recovering - Hern
...is unsure about how to deal with sexual
issues, after he and his wife begin counseling in
the aftermath of her affair.
- Feeling like a fool
..begins having deep feelings for a female
friend, after his former lover leaves to return
to her husband.
- To Bernd/Lynda- duped
..discovers the man she has been having a 2 year
long-distance relationship with is living with
- Virtual love - Lilly
...has a cyber relationship turn serious, causing
problems in her marriage and in her cyberlover's
- Help! - Just
..wants to leave an unhappy 5 year marriage, and
finds her willingness to try their counselor's
suggestions complicated by her feelings for an
- VT to RT
relationships - Barry
..gets loud warning signals that his cyberlover
has started a real life relationship with another
- Feeling Really Rotten
..finds herself in ongoing misery, after leaving
her lover before returning to her husband to try
and make the marriage work again.
- Recovering from
affair, but not really - rose
... is still having a difficult time 2 years
after her husband's affair with a co-worker,
especially since he still works with his
- To: Bernd, et al
- Lady "G"
..looks for advice in her wish to get more deeply
involved with a married man.
- The guilty one - Katy
..is having a hard time trying to patch things up
with her husband, after she responded
non-sexually to a pass his cousin made.